Salam ukhwah...
dah lame x update blog nie...skang nie baru ade mase..hehe...rindu plak kat skool.. trase nak pergi skool..nak jumpe ngan 'adik2'..ngan cikgu...especially,T.cer Diana.. T.cer Ita...Cg. Tajuddin...Ustazah Zaiton...bonda tersayang....rindu sangat....tapi..nak pergi camne..transport pun xde...mybe,bley lepaskan rindu time nak gie ambek result kut....lmbat lagilah klu camtu....bulan 3...nie bru bulan 1....oh ye..baru teringat...ana nk share something....
COUPLE DALAM ISLAM
selalu bertanya pada diri, couple tu blh ke tak dlm Islam?....blh ke tak ni?....
one day, one of my friend dpt article dari IKIM ttg
couple dlm Islam....it answers my question
clearly....
ape kate Islam ttg couple?....sebesar2 tajuk yg ditaip dlm article "percintaan :
HARAM !!!!"dlm Islam tiada istilah bercouple....kalau benar seorang lelaki itu mencintai seseorg wanita seikhlas hatinya, tidak blh dia bercouple....
bercouple adlh dtg dari nafsu....buat apa menurutkan nafsu?.... dalam Islam yg ade hanyalah perkahwinan....
cara2nya,....
bila seorg lelaki itu tersuka kat seorg wanita tak kira lah member ke, tak pnah knal ker,....dia kena solat istikharah dahulu sblm memulakan langkah....minta petunjuk Allah benarkah si dia itu adlh jodoh yg telah Allah tetapkan.... kemudian, andai dah dpt petunjuk benar si dia jodoh yg Allah tetapkan, kena approach parents dia....bkn nyer approach dia....lelaki ni kenalah minta izin kat parents nak kawan ngan perempuan ni dan niat dia berkawan kenalah nak memperisterikan perempuan ni, bukan sekadar main2 ek.... pastu, kalau perempuan ni pula kena buat solat istikharah minta petunjuk dari Allah btul tak lelaki ni jodoh dia....kalau dah dpt petunjuk dari Allah
dan parents kata ok,....tak ber makna blh dating, keluar bersama2 dan sbgnya....
step seterusnya kena cpat2 tetapkan tarikh kahwin....pastu kahwin la, and happy ever
after....Insya Allah....
so,....sedar tak yg sebenarnya step2 di atas adlh
step utk meminang ?....
kesimpulannya, dlm Islam tak der istilah couple.... kpd sahabat2 yang saya sayangi dan kasihi, marilah kita sama membanteras gejala2 bercouple ni sbb bermula dari couple, mcm2 blh terjadi, tak pyh la di sini saya sebutkan complication2 yg
timbul slps bercouple....hehe, mcm hypertension lak ade complication2....
sanggupkah kita gadaikan agama hanya utk kepuasan diri?....
ingat, kita muslim diperhati oleh non-muslim, mcm mana nak berdakwah kalau diri songsang?....''
i do believe in this words, deep down if u guys ask urself, we already have the answer, ALLAH the almighty have always slipped in the answer in our heart, it's just that we rather listen to the 'other' voice than the one that's already there...
wassalam....
Tuesday, January 18, 2011
COUPLE IN ISLAM??
Thursday, January 6, 2011
become a MUSLIM
It takes 5 minutes to perform the SUBUH prayer,
but it takes 1 hour to get ready for class...
It takes 5 minutes to put on the TUDUNG,
but it takes 20 minutes to do your hairs...
It takes 2 second to say SALAM to your friend,
but it takes 3 minutes to put your shoes...
It takes 15 minutes to perform ZOHOR prayer,
but it takes 45 minutes to have lunch...
It takes 15 minutes to perform ASAR prayer,
but it takes 1 hour to chat with friend...
It takes 10 minutes to read QURAN,
but it takes 2 hour to watch a movie...
It takes 10 minutes to perform MAGHRIB prayer,
but it takes 1 hour to watch 'Who Will Win'...
It takes 5 minutes to read HADITH gaily,
but it takes 20 minutes to read the newspaper...
It takes 5 minutes to perform ISYA' prayer,
but it takes 8 hour to sleep...
